Etiquette

A few thoughtful notes.

A little courtesy goes a long way. Everything below is in service of making our time together feel effortless, discreet, and deliciously mutual.

No. 01

First impressions matter

The booking form on my contact page is my preferred way to be reached; I’ve written it so nothing important is missed. Email or text message are also options, just make sure you include your name, desired date, duration, location and the kind of experience you’re dreaming of. I reply personally, and I prioritise quality over quantity. Thoughtful messages always come first.

No. 02

Planning ahead is sexy

I’m rarely available with under 48 hours’ notice, so please plan ahead where you can, both to avoid disappointment, and to let anticipation stoke the flames a little. The dates I remember most are the ones we’ve both been daydreaming about for weeks. Tours in particular often book out before I even reach the destination, so if you know I’m coming to your city, don’t leave it too late.

No. 03

Securing our time

A 30–50% deposit is appreciated to secure our booking. My preferred methods are Beem (discreet, instant, Australian), Bitcoin, or Wise for international transfers. The balance is settled gracefully in cash upon arrival.

No. 04

If life gets in the way

In the rare instance I need to cancel for any reason, you will receive a full refund promptly via Beem. Life happens for you too, and I understand. In Melbourne, I’m happy to raincheck when given 48 hours’ notice. On tour or FMTY, I’ll try to reschedule wherever possible, but if we can’t find a new time, the deposit is kept to cover the held slot. For last-minute changes within 48 hours on tour or FMTY, the full booking fee is owed unless otherwise agreed.

No. 05

Health matters

I prioritise my health and wellbeing, and expect you to do the same. As adults, we are each in charge of our own sexual health and the health of anyone we’re intimate with. Despite adhering to strict sexual health practices, I’m tested regularly, and I expect you to be the same. Oral sex still carries risks, as does protected penetration, so please stay educated and stay current with your testing. Take your sexual health and overall health seriously. Regular dental check-ups go a long way for oral health and hygiene too.

No. 06

First time? Breathe.

If you’re new to this, think of our time together as a first date: the kind without the ambiguity, the admin, or the usual mess. Show up as yourself. Freshly groomed when you can be, but please don’t fret. A shower before we get physical is always part of our time together, so you’ll have a moment to settle, rinse off, and arrive in the present with me. A small tip on grooming: please keep pubic hair neatly trimmed, but avoid a fresh shave right before we meet. Micro-cuts and extra-sensitive skin down there aren’t conducive to a good time for either of us.

No. 07

A few important policies

If at any point my health or personal safety feels compromised during our time together, I reserve the right to end the session, no exceptions. All images, written material and creative content on this site are my intellectual property and remain so; unauthorised use, reproduction or distribution will be pursued to the full extent of the law. I do not consent to any information about our time together, my identity, or my personal life being shared on review boards, forums, message groups or public sites of any kind. Breach of this may result in legal action. Discretion is a two-way street. If you ever see me in public, kindly do not approach or acknowledge me. We’ll always have our private world.

No. 08

Little ways to make an impression

A few small courtesies I always notice: freshly shaved or neatly groomed facial hair (my skin is soft and easily marked by sharp stubble), fresh breath and good oral hygiene. And if you’d like to spoil me, my wishlist holds all the little things that bring me joy. Flowers, a bottle, anything from the wishlist: none of it required, all of it remembered.

Wishlist